I am not a church going Christian, and have no shame in my beliefs. Many people have no clue where my personal beliefs are, my own family is unaware of why I feel the way I do about some things…. kind of crazy when you think of how out spoken I am.
I am a true believer in living and teaching by example.
Do onto others as you would have done on to you.
Mike and I struggle with his daughter Lisa. Lisa at some point over the last 24 months has decided that I am the enemy. She has put things into her head that are only half truths and things that make absolutely no sense. She lied to her father and when he told her he knew the truth the war was on.
She recently wrote her father a letter – going on and on with her lies and her finger pointing. It is a sad commentary of someone that claims to be a Christian. I am not sure how anyone can be as pig headed and believe their own lies as she can.
She believes that her father chose me over her – there was never a decision – he chose the truth over her lies. He saw and heard first hand the lies and hate she has. She sat in court so wrapped up into wanting to hate that she could not even realize that she had pushed me to the point of being willing to leave my marriage to make her happy. She was so wrapped up into her own plot that she was too self absorbed to realize she had won the war. When she had to take it one step further…. that step pushed her father over the edge -
Lisa you claim to be upset about losing your father – funny thing is he has gone no where – his phone works just fine – he spends a lot of time alone – and you have to be able to play the victim -
I remember the way you treated your mom – I remember the way you treated your sister – I have watched your cold halfheartedness attempts to show affection. I watched you ruin your marriage – I watched you use your children to hurt others -
Lisa – a few words to you – I forgive you – without any conditions – I forgive you – I am still heart broken – but I forgive you -
